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You know Cupid. That naked, chubby, smiling cherub who shoots his magic arrows at unsuspecting men and women to make them fall in love. He is a busy little match-maker whose image appears on many Valentine's Day cards. Now, I do not believe in an actual Cupid any more than I believe in the reality of Greek gods, but I do believe in the genuineness of love. True love. Love that equates with service and sacrifices made over time. What is this kind of love? I'll let Derian answer that question for you as he answered it for Eena in the book, Eena, The Return of a Queen. I think he got it spot on.
My husband and I traveled more over the holidays than we have traveled in ages, spending over two weeks driving and flying from destination to destination. The trip was necessary, occasionally fun, every so often difficult, but definitely worth it. During the last two weeks of December, 2023, we were able to attend one son’s college graduation at Brigham Young University-Idaho as well as participate in three separate Christmas celebrations with family members.
The interesting thing to me is how both good and unpleasant moments
comprised the trip. We experienced the greatest days as well as miserable days.
If I wanted, I could list an abundance of blessings we received,
while on the other hand I could list an abundance of hard disappointments. That
is why I say it was like a mini model of life. The trick was deciding where to
concentrate our attention. If I focused on the food poisoning, the many hours
of driving, the friends I was unable to visit, the small and uncomfortable beds,
the amount of money spent, the coughing and sneezing on the drive home, etc.—it
would be easy to argue that this was a really bad trip. But the thing is, it
wasn’t! it was wonderful! Why? Because I focused on the chance to see my
kids and my family, the warm hugs I gave and received, the delicious dinners we
shared, the gifts we exchanged, the perfect weather we were blessed with for
driving, the safe travels, the chance to see my mom and sisters and nieces and
nephews, the opportunity to attend a Jazz basketball game,
the quick recovery
from illness, etc. It is all in what we choose to focus on. Good and bad exist
in everything. How we view an event, a trip, a relationship, a lifetime depends
on what aspects we choose to focus on. I am truly grateful to know that life honestly
feels better when we focus on the good.
Yes, life is like a lengthy road trip, filled with great
moments as well as unpleasant moments. It is our focus that determines whether our
travels through this life are deemed positive or not.
"If you have built your castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put foundations under them."
“Don't ever give up.Words I live by.
Don't ever give in.
Don't ever stop trying.
Don't ever sell out.
And if you find yourself succumbing to one of the above for a brief moment, pick yourself up, brush yourself off, whisper a prayer, and start where you left off. But never, ever, ever give up.”
"No matter what you write, no matter how meticulous and painstaking the creation process, someone is going to laugh, scorn, and dissect your work with criticism while another quietly falls in love with it."
Recently, I stumbled across an author interview I did a few years back with an administrator from Awesome Gang―"Where awesome book readers meet awesome writers." It was fun to read through the questions/answers again and realize that most of the goals I mentioned during the interview have now been accomplished. It has taken its share of time.
Unfortunately, when goals eat up a lengthy amount of work days, any substantial forward progress seems less evident. But while reading over this interview and looking back, I realized how much I have actually accomplished since then. It was a positive boost for me.
I am including the interview below for your enjoyment. Go ahead and read it while I continue chipping away at my writing goals. There is still a lot I plan to do!
(You can find the original interview on awesomegang.com)
THEN |
NOW |
Ten years
ago, 8 people considered my writing inspiring enough to call
themselves a fan or follower on Goodreads. |
Today, 250 people
now follow me on Goodreads. Thank you! |
Ten
years ago, 40 people liked my most popular book quote on
Goodreads out of thirty quotes posted at the time. |
Today, my
most popular quote on Goodreads has 409 likes out of the 1,678 original quotes posted. Wow! I guess I have a lot to say. |
Ten
years ago, I started with 3 Twitter followers. |
Today,
I have 2,295. Thank you too! |
Six
years ago, my author website had 13,552 visits. |
Today,
my author website has had 27,232 visits (and counting.) Nice! |
Six years
ago, 441 people followed my Facebook author page. |
Today, 921 people
follow my Facebook author page. |
Six years
ago, 397 followed my Instagram. |
Today, 596 follow
my Instagram page. |
Six years
ago, 41 followed me on Tumblr. |
Today, 124 follow
me on Tumbler. Slow and steady progress. |